I define sex power as being in charge of your sexual energy.
You understand the power of your sexual energy and how to focus this energy towards the other creative efforts.
For most people, their sexual energy stays trapped at the root chakra level if they are not having intercourse. This is what causes people to become irate and agitated when they are horny. You energy needs to move!! If you cannot move your energy without intercourse, you are not in charge of your sexual energy.
Sexual energy is a potent creative force that can create whole new realities when it is cultivated and focused properly. For most people, this energy is wasted. The full potential of this powerful force is not realized. It is instead focused towards obtaining a sexual partner and then released during intercourse, remaining at a root chakra (survival based, primal) level of utilization.
Get out of your default habits!
Instead of having sex when you feel aroused, give yourself space to explore that energy. Play around with different techniques to redirect your sexual energy and focus it towards something that you want to create/manifest/attract.
How does it feel when you are sexually aroused?
Does your heart race?
Does your breath quicken?
Maybe you feel a rush of heat or your skin tingles?
Continue to enter that physical and energetic space of arousal.
Let yourself get turned on.
You can even think of something that turns you on.
While in that space of arousal, shift your focus to something you want to manifest.
Visualize this desired thing/experience/person.
Get as detailed as you can with it.
**You can also masturbate, or touch yourself in some pleasurable way as you visualize to amp up the energy that is being focused*
Continue to visualize for as long as you desire, or if your're masturbating, to the point of climax.
This simple exercise is one of many tools you can use to consciously and deliberately redirect your sexual energy from a physical expression to another creative effort or pursuit.
Sex transmutation at its finest!
"Cast yourself. You are the spell."
Black Femme Witches Brew founder, Jamila Kani, is a witch of many trades. Through her work as an Oracle, Ritual Practitioner, and Life and Spiritual Coach, she guides individuals to reclaim their magic and step into their power as Deliberate Creators.
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